1. Taking care of yourself– No matter how you actually look, if you’re in the process of working on the goal of better health, then YOU ARE HOT. Any form of self-care is HOT. You’re on the move, presenting to the world a courageous act of saying “I matter! No matter what’s going on nor how I’m feeling, I’m shining my shoes and building muscle!” People on the move are HOT.
2. You Love people in spite of the behavior– When you are paying more attention to people’s strengths and potential, you’re HOT. It has to do with being smart. The great things about people are many times more abundant, than the few behaviors which offend us. Investing in what you love makes for more feelings of love. When you practice LOVE, you emanate warmth. When you emanate warmth, you’re HOT.
3. Doing your thing- You’re the one who spends time honing the craft or working on a project. And chances are, it sets you apart from the others at least for the time being. This makes for automatic HOTNESS because the activity draws questions. You are automatically HOT when people are asking questions. You are on the move. Even criticism about what you do is HOT, because the other person is spending his/ her time and energy on you!
I’m glad you have decided to get over your pansiness and click on this post to read. Desire is a six-letter word that often connotes some sort of carnal lust for a substance or even better, a person. Such a word is seen on the front cover of romance novels and articles, which lead the reader into an underworld filled with the kinds of unmentionable activity between people. I would even put “desire” in the category of taboo conversation. Only because this is the result of a social mechanism we human beings have built to label and shelve our corners of existence.
I use the word “desire” to help put some emotional charge behind my priorities and to establish a point of entitlement in this respect. In order for me to take ownership for what I see as personal goals, there must be an investment on my part. But let’s move on to the reason I titled this piece with “desire.”
My gives me a verbal list of grocery items right before I am about to grab the keys. There are only four items to remember and she knows that I can keep them in mind, all the way to the store. She asks me if I need to right them down anyway. I quickly reply “Oh yes” and go ahead to make a written list. Yeah, I’ve heard and read about all the different ways that we can exercise our minds. There are many benefits to keeping our brains stimulated with memory games and what not. The internet is full of literature on how much better a person can gain in the prospect of health by pushing our mental capacities.
The thing is, I already put my brain to use. One bit of clear evidence is in the making of this article. And this is where the word “desire” comes in. Instead of holding in my memory the list of fruits, veggies, bread and other kitchen items, I desire to exercise my imagination. Or I simply choose to listen to the car stereo and really get into the music. These uses of the brain help me further my goals and enable quality time for projects. My projects bring enjoyment and quality development for life and family. There’s no doubt of my ability to bring up the list in memory once I get to the store, but why waste such effort when it could just be written? A few minutes of writing on paper can buy me an infinite peace of mind. The organizational tools industry makes a bundle for good reason. It’s easier to move on with the important things and move on when we’re writing appointments on a calendar and not letting these items take our memories hostage.